Nightmare neighbours? Here are some tips on dealing with them - Part 1

To be at odds with a neighbour can really be stressful. Here's how to take steps to stop war breaking out and hopefully find a peaceful solution:

• Keep Notes

Having a nightmare neighbour is stressful enough as it is, so it’s hardly surprising that you’ll be feeling confused and angry. But, it’s really important to keep a written record of any incidents. Yes, even the littlest ones. Make a note of dates and times. Include as much detail as possible. At some point you may need to refer to this information, and you’ll be glad you took the trouble to keep a dairy. You could even blog about it!

• Communicate if and when possible

If you can have a friendly talk with your nightmare neighbour then do give this a try. Although if the person seems volatile or potentially dangerous it’s not worth the risk. In many cases though, the nightmare neighbour doesn’t realise they’re causing you hassle and an amicable chat can help pave the way for smoother relations. If talking to your neighbour face to face isn’t an option, then write them a letter – keeping the tone polite – and do keep a copy of what you’ve written. Again, you may need this in future if things don’t settle down.

• Reconciling differences

Your local housing department may be able to advice you about neighbourhood conciliation service that are available in your area. Set up for just this purpose, these sort of mediation services are there to help neighbours resolve issues with a little outside unbiased assistance.

  

• If you rent or own your home 

If you rent your home from your Local Authority or you’re a home owner you can contact Environmental Health Department of your local council. Outline your circumstances to them and find out what measures they might take when sorting out nightmare neighbour issues – If you have a strong case they may be able to investigate the situation for you.

Are you a home owner? Then don’t forget to read through the small print of any insurance policies relating to the property. Some policies include the right to use a legal help line or even cover for legal costs.

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